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Вт Авг 31, 2021 12:29 pm
Be honest: do you compare yourself with other people? Your life, your partner, your clothes, experiences… Do you fall in a pit of self-loathing that at some point kinda feels warm and cozy?
If your answer is yes then let me tell you is completely normal, think about it: while growing up many of our parents compared our grades to other kids’, they compared our behaviors, ideas and so on, so in a way, we learned that we are valuable ONLY if we are better than the people who surround us so we started to make the comparison ourselves.
And that’s when insecurity comes creeping, sounding a bit like: “Since you’re not better than him/her, you don’t deserve what he/she has”, or “You’re not good enough to be happy/confident”.
A shy guy will look around and compare himself to the social butterfly who gets all the attention from girls. The voice inside his head will tell him he’ll never be worthy of attention because he isn’t a social butterfly and, moreover, he will indeed be completely ignored.
A chubby girl will feel the voices of the entire world shaming her when she’ll try a crop-top, showing her round belly, deemed “not worthy” from a society point of view.
And that’s when “being yourself” becomes just something the world says but does not mean, and, while comparing yourself to others, you ignore your own strengths and focus on theirs.
This is unfair to you. So, what is to be done?
Be yourself, but this time UNAPOLOGETICALLY. How? Very easy: stop comparing yourself with other people and start comparing you with the “yesterday you”.
Are you stronger than a year ago? Or a month ago? Are you more at peace with yourself than a year ago? Or a month ago? Are you loving yourself more than a year ago?
Start focusing on YOUR growth, not on everybody else’s. It’s worth it I love youI love you

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 12:30 pm
Because we fear vulnerability, we turned it from strength to weakness.
Vulnerability is the state of being open to injury, or appearing as you are and there are many myths around this concept.
More than ever we are seeing loneliness, depression, broken relationships and more division. People are ghosting each other, almost unable to liaise with other humans and, if you ask me, all is because we aren’t leveraging vulnerability as a weapon.
We want to seem perfect, healthy, successful and so on in the eyes of the world, we don’t want to put ourselves in an uncomfortable position, or a position in which we have to be brave, so we are never honest with people (or with ourselves).
We can see this phenomenon in social media: influencers portray a fabulous life that is not real, but have real life issues that are not talking about because we are ashamed to be less than perfect. So we isolate, thinking that we are wrong, thinking that we are weird.
The reality is that we all have the same struggles (more or less). But if I didn’t convince you yet, here are some benefits of vulnerability:
🪶 makes you more honest with yourself - think of it this way: if you are on a plane that is crashing, you need first to put your oxygen mask on, and only after helping the others. To truly have intimacy, you first need to have that with yourself.
🪶 boost of self-worth - vulnerability teaches you to be honest, at first, because after it will push you to stand up for yourself, because you are being honest about what you want and not ashamed anymore.
🪶 feeling less dependent on outside opinions - so you are honest with yourself now, and brave, of course you’ll be less keen to believe other people’s projections of us.
And those are just the perks in relation to you! Now go and discover what vulnerability looks like in a relationship as well 💕

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 12:31 pm
I don’t know about you, but when I was young I used to hear lots and lots of stories, whether in cartoon form or reading them from books. Many of those stories were about love and it was only natural that I started to imagine the days with my partner once I’ll be “grown up”.
The way I’d imagine the relationship was honest, constructed on mutual respect, laughter, love, based on communication, trust, happiness, and growth together, just as I saw in my parents. Then I grew up a bit and became a teenager.
Suddenly the world of dating made me feel like a victim. My parents started to warn me about boys and how I can’t trust them, society continuously told me that love does not *really* exist: men insisted that all they want is a “good girl”, women told me men want a good girl since it’s easier to cheat on them, and, all of a sudden, love, relationships and anything related to this world became ugly.
Love wasn’t about love anymore, as I naively thought, now love was about profit, about sex, about power, it was about being cool, or cold, it was about who loves who most, and how is always better for your partner to love you a bit more than you love them… it was about who was winning and not about winning together. At 15, during these “revelations”, I never felt more lost. I started questioning relationships and sex: they seem like a constant battle, no peace, no honesty, but looking around I saw that nobody had an issue with that, so I assumed I was being irrational and assumed that relationships are about settling.
So, I isolated myself, for many years. I defined what I want from a relationship and who I want to become to have *that* kind of relationship, I didn’t care if society will consider it crazy or unachievable, I know what I want and if I will never find it all my life, so be it: I prefer being on my own forever than being miserable with someone.
But discipline has a way of rewarding: after almost 4 years of no dating at all (I wasn’t even able to have a crush anymore), I met HIM. Or better said I discovered him.
So now, at almost 28 I am back to describing love like at 7: honest, constructed on mutual respect, laughter, love…I love you

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 2:37 pm
We are getting more and more used to see heavy make up and deceptive filters that make us feel like our skin is wrong, like we have to always have a face full of make-up to feel pretty. There was a time when I, personally, started to link having “a perfect face” to having success, thinking you can’t have one without the other, but I learned in time to respect my skin. If you’re interested here are a few points that helped me accept myself:
🎀 your skin, like yourself, can’t always look perfect by society’s standards and that’s because your skin has its own cycle. Goes through its own journey and sometimes is more tired than others. Don’t panic when your face breaks, instead, treat it as if your best friend is tired: with love, rest and care.
🎀 remember that our cells change every month (approx.) and that our skin is like a plant: if you talk to it in a nice way it will flourish, if you spend your time criticizing it it will slowly die. Have patience, your skin is really doing its best while going through crazy changes!
🎀 you HAVE TO be your biggest fan, even when you don’t feel particularly worthy, even with a face full of acne. You are not your body, your size, your skin… you are more than those, and is up to you to find the uniqueness of your existence through unconditional self love.

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 2:38 pm
Can free speech become censorship?
Can we use our right to speak to oppress other people into not speaking?
I mean… Yes, we have been doing this for mostly all our history: we have been oppressing women, gay people, black people, Indian people, people of different religions, and the list continues.
We have been using tyrannic systems in order to get our points across (see nazis, fascists, communists, etc) in order to shape society the way “it should be”, but all these systems, not only have failed and left horrible scars on humanity, but also, have one thing in common: oppression of speech.
If you were living during communism you could never speak about individualism, unless you wanted a permanent living accommodation in prison; similarly, if you were living during Nazi Germany, you’d simply risk your life because you are helping a Jew.
And now?
Nowadays there is a narrative that can become as dangerous as the systems I have mentioned earlier: cancel culture. Meaning we see something we don’t agree with so we want it to disappear immediately.
I completely understand this point of view, however, is this healthy?
In my opinion, there is a difference between holding people accountable for what they are saying/doing and demonizing them.
Society doesn’t have a responsibility towards you, you however, should have a responsibility towards yourself in the meaning that… if you’re waiting for the world to change, you might be waiting for a very long time.
Something that helps me with this is realizing if I am being emotional about something, and if I am, I give myself a timeout because emotions make me react, not act, they are not accurate and can be deceiving.
I also remember something one of my profs in college said: “Work towards accepting that whenever you’ll say something you’ll have 30% of people who’ll agree with you no matter what you say, another 30% of people will be completely neutral about what you are saying, while the remaining 40% will contradict you no matter what wonderful things you’ll say.”
If you want to be happy, never focus on that 40%, it is useless, focus on the neutral, you might end up interesting friends. ☺I love you

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 2:41 pm
Happens lots of times to start something (dancing, exercising, singing, therapy, etc) and to end up completely demotivated because of the high expectations we put on ourselves, and this brings unnecessary frustrations and puts lots of pressure on our shoulders.

Somehow we think that if we start something we’ll also be good at it from the very beginning, or that it will be easy, but the truth is that, as cliche as it sounds, Rome wasn’t built in one day: it was built brick by brick, which translates to the modern “one step at a time”.

Few tips:

🧱 start small - no action is small enough. If you want to get in shape, you can’t go and run for 4 hours right away, you might have to start with 5 minutes and gradually increase. Which takes me to the next point…
🧱 … celebrate all the victories, regardless if big or small - make gratitude a habit, it’s a great one! 😆
🧱 learn to comfort yourself - know that you’ll go through hard times and that’s ok, always treat yourself with kindness
🧱 know when you need rest - you can’t properly function when exhausted, so make your well-being a priority.

Now go build your own Rome 💪I love you

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 2:41 pm
Be honest: how many times did you start an argument and mid-way you realized that you’re actually not that mad anymore? Or you realize that the other person maybe has a point?

Are you able to step back, apologize and learn something new? Or will you simply continue on the road of arguing, hoping somehow that the fight will die down?

Often times, the difference between an argument and a debate is flexibility.

If both parties are willing to listen to each other’s arguments while considering them and forming opinions, that is a conversation.

If a party is rigid in seeing things just in one way, if there is talk of “right and wrong”, this will often translate in arguments.

Know the difference and let’s debate I love you

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 2:41 pm
In my conversations with people, everybody loves to remind me that we are divided by gender, that we are different, males and females.
But this, honestly, sounds like bullshit to me, especially because we usually use this differentiation when is convenient to us:
🪄 Instead of working on my time management skills, I’ll be late to everything and I’ll say that I’m a woman and this is what being a woman means. 🤷‍�
🪄 Instead of getting to know someone genuinely, I will focus on finding out if there’s a chance for sex for me, I’ll focus on my gain and I’ll say I’m a man and this is what being a man is. 🤷
Both of these versions are irresponsible, childish and most probably stuck into a perspective that is completely false.
We are more than our gender, than our looks, we are more than our desires and our selfish ways. We are human beings, all of us.
We have a heart, lungs, eyes that can observe or judge, hands that can caress or hurt, mouth we can use to kiss or to spread anger.
There is no “male/female” bullshit. We might have different things to learn in this lifetime, and our lessons might not be the same, but we can treat each other like equals, we can learn from each other, we can develop friendships, we can build bridges and destroy walls and all of that because we are human beings, and that comes before race, age, sexual orientation, and any other socially constructed concept.
I am HUMAN. You are HUMAN. We are HUMAN. I love you

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 2:42 pm
Feeling great in your skin goes from clothes, to make-up, to color of your hair, to the choice of having hair or not.
That’s why is important to respect all forms of expression and not offend people with names like “catfish”. Many of the works are pure form of art.
Speaking of which, thank you to the wonderful artist @carina.hertanu for the make-up I love youI love you
Make-up removal and cleansing are two essential steps to have a healthy skin, but depending on the skin type, age and, of course, everyone's beauty preferences, the needs are not the same.
Without realizing it, you could choose an inappropriate make-up remover or skin cleansing product, and risk not only not giving your skin the desired cleansing, but even damaging it.
This is why @the_buzzstore_ro has teamed up with @yvesrocherro and their researchers have created a range of products adapted to all needs, regardless of skin, age, gender, lifestyle or beauty desires. I love you
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Вт Авг 31, 2021 6:44 pm
A gente precisa lembrar que família também é gente. Que os laços de sangue não fazem ninguém perfeito, que uma função não torna alguém um modelo de conduta. Pessoas são imperfeitas, famílias são imperfeitas. Temos em mente ideais de mãe, pai, filho, irmãos, avós, e esquecemos que para além dessas funções cada pessoa é um ser, com seus próprios limites e imperfeições, com sua vivência e as marcas que carrega. Para além de um modelo perfeito de família, existe a família real. Pode ser o nosso maior suporte, ou o nosso maior desafio.
Nem sempre é fácil conviver, nem sempre há amor, muitas vezes as marcas ganhadas ali acompanham para a vida toda. Feliz daquele que encontra ali aconchego, compreensão, orientação, incentivo e amor. Na maioria das vezes encontramos um pouco dos dois. Porque intimidade e amor não faz perfeição.
Não podemos mudar as pessoas e nem nosso passado, mas o mais importante é a maneira como digerimos as nossas vivências dentro de nós. Nem sempre podemos resolver uma situação fora, nem sempre precisamos manter um contato externo e íntimo com pessoas que não se mostram saudáveis para nós. Mas é importante sim resolver essa situação por dentro. Cada um de nós carrega a família dentro de si também. É ali que precisamos nos resolver, com nossas próprias emoções, para sarar nossas feridas.
Perdoar a nossa família por suas imperfeições não é validar ou concordar com suas atitudes. É se libertar de mágoas, culpas, dores e remorsos. É caminhar com mais leveza, entendendo que também carregamos nossas imperfeições, que todos estamos aprendendo, que modelos perfeitos não existem, que o passado ficou para trás e que temos a chave da libertação e o controle da nossa vida agora.
Essa ressignificação interna leva tempo, porém quanto mais nos aprofundamos nessa compreensão, mais nos libertamos da mágoa e dessa corrente de influências negativas que podem vir do que as vezes chamamos de “família tóxica”. Perdoar é se libertar - Alexandre Gruber

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Вт Авг 31, 2021 6:47 pm
Polícia civil acaba de localizar e prender o feminicida que espancou a esposa até a morte em Pau dos Ferros.
Emannuel Shyrley Nunes Pessoa foi preso numa operação comandada pelo Delegado Andson Rodrigo na divisa entre o RN e a PB. Emannuel estava foragido da justiça desde o dia do crime e agora será recambiado para Pau dos Ferros, onde responderá pelo crime de feminicídio contra sua companheira Sandra Letícia Gonçalves da Silva.
Entenda o caso:
Uma mulher foi encontrada morta com sinais de espancamento na madrugada de segunda-feira (23), em Pau dos Ferros, região do Alto Oeste. O principal suspeito do crime é o companheiro dela, um policial militar reformado.
Segundo informações repassadas pela Polícia Militar, por voltas das 4h30 vizinhos entraram em contato com o Centro Integrado de Operações de Segurança Pública (Ciosp) informando sobre o caso. Eles contaram que o ouviram o suspeito falar que havia cometido “uma besteira”.
Segundo informações repassadas pela Polícia Militar, por voltas das 4h30 vizinhos entraram em contato com o Centro Integrado de Operações de Segurança Pública (Ciosp) informando sobre o caso. Eles contaram que o ouviram o suspeito falar que havia cometido “uma besteira”

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So, we’ve been on an adventure! It was the first time I’ve ever seen how a hot-air balloon is “assembled” so I thought of sharing with you what my camera captured.
Thank you @johnistrate for the awesome service, great vibes and lots of fun. I love you we’ll surely come back soon 💖💖

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 6:04 am
Being tough or vulnerable? Being gentle or rude? Being “nice” or not so nice? What would bring me more respect?
The above were my questions for a very long time and if you look at them closely, you’ll be able to notice the insecurity. You’ll observe that these are not the thoughts of someone proud of themselves, or someone at peace with themselves, but these are the thoughts of a scared, little girl.
I started to work on my self-confidence and I progressed to believe in the “I’ll treat people as they treat me” philosophy. The problem with that is that you put yourself in a place in which you can only react, not act. You have to wait to see what type of person you have in front of yourself before actually deciding how you’ll behave.
I started to wonder: why should I wait to see someone’s personality to decide my own? Why do that when I can just decide what behavior I want to display in the first place, without waiting for approval, or for confirmation. Not according to someone else, but according to me and what I feel.
Of course, that thought process made me aware that I had to first develop my ability of listening to myself, listening to my anger, listening to my wounds. I had to understand how to listen to myself and had to learn how to differentiate between the lies I tell myself and the truths.
So, I decided that before being tough or vulnerable, I needed to learn how to be both.
And that’s when society proved me we are fucked: when I was tough, as a woman, people were very displeased with that, even though is a perfectly normal, human behavior.
On the other side, when males try to be vulnerable, society reminds them they’re not allowed, even though is a normal, human behavior.
I didn’t agree with society, so again, I had to decide for myself: the way I’ll get respect is by giving it to myself. The rest will come naturally… and it did. 💖

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 2:26 pm
In these times, I look around and see that kindness is not that easy to come by as it should, from my opinion.
From a scientific point of view we know that kindness is the most important predictor of satisfaction and stability in marriage, for instance. From a humanistic point, kindness is simply voluntarily performing an action toward another person, started from the desire to help.
This implies that, if the main intention is to help someone, there should be no place for judgment, there should be no place for punishment.
So the question comes naturally at this point: are we really kind? Are we brave enough to be truly kind? Are we even able to help someone who has made mistakes? Are we able to be better than animals when it come to action-reaction?
If I look outside, kindness is very much underrated, hard to come by or just disguised as greed, but when I look inside, I feel the warmth and strength of kindness, I see people’s lives who have changed because of it when we know how hard it is to change.
Kindness might just be the secret weapon nobody talks about. You can give it to others, or to yourself, you can practice it with animals and trees.
How to be kind? Well here are a few points:
🧸 if you do something, don’t expect anything in return
🧸 become more self-aware and realize where your perspective might not be inclusive - many times, we tend to justify violence against certain types of people (race, sex, gender identity, criminal records and so on), but we forget that we are not solving an issue when we blame it. The blaming game never works.
🧸 learn from others - it is always nice to get inspired by other people, I, for instance, was very much inspired by an old lady in Italy: when she spoke she was so kind, never spoke ill of anyone and always ready to understand, rather than judge. I’m sure we all have these kind of people around.
Go play kindness with them. 💖

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 2:27 pm
While growing up we usually adopt a defensive mechanism. We start being less and less open to the world and more and more afraid, starting to be more suspicious and, that way, slowly, a wall is built.
A wall that allows us to protect ourselves from the outside, a wall behind which we can hide and not show anyone our pain and struggles.
We find ourselves repeating cycles related to all aspects of our life, and trust me, hiding pain doesn’t heal it.
Many say “well, this is adulthood”, but I say that we can make it better by acknowledging our inner child.
Yes, we all have one, including you, so start by acknowledging it. How? The easiest way is to recognize and accept things that hurt you in your childhood, regardless if you were 5 or 17 or if you don’t think those were “valid reasons” to be in pain.
These wounds might turn up in your life as overwhelming emotions when confronted with a trauma from the past: you might feel anger, abandonment, rejection, guilt/shame, anxiety.
Try these:
🧸 write your younger self a letter, tell them all the things you wished were told, tell them feelings are normal, healing is preferred, and anger accomplishes nothing.
🧸 try and meditate, if it proves to be more difficult than healing, just spend active time thinking about where is the pain in your childhood
🧸 make time to play and rediscover the joy and happiness of childhood. Many didn’t have a healthy one, so this is your chance to rewrite history (and feel better in the meantime!)
🧸 and of course, talk to a therapist (or me hehe). I promise if you have the right vibe, things will natural.
Come and play with your younger self. Guide them, teach them, be patient with them and give them what they never received when they desperately needed it.

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 2:28 pm
*Unpopular Opinion Ahead* So… hear me out! The line between personal preference and body shaming becomes kinda nuanced when it comes to males. Don’t get me wrong, I am completely aware that women have their own social struggles, but I wouldn’t be a true feminist if I wasn’t also interested in guys’ struggles.
And if I have to be honest… it seems to me like, when it comes to guys, there is a layer of double standard. Is way easier to be cruel, to ignore, aggressively reject, make fun and laugh at a dude, since they receive the judgement of both females and other males.
My boyfriend gave me a very valid example: imagine you are a shy girl, in this world there are plenty of guys that like shy girls, so you’ll still get the social attention, but if you are a shy boy… good luck! That apparently means something, you can’t just BE in a way, no. Is not just a characteristic of your personality anymore, no, you are suddenly a “pussy”, you are weak and worthless. You see girls going for the douchebags of the world, you see them appreciating a cold attitude, you see them chasing the dude that treat her like shit and you are left to wonder what is wrong with… you? There is NOTHING wrong with you. Similarly, you’ll be heavily judged if you are not
🪞 Tall, charismatic, interesting, rich, funny, and, exactly like in the case of women, the list is endless
There are HUNDREDS of sites telling you that “women are attracted to your survival traits”, that you should never show your vulnerabilities, you should never be emotional, and a bunch of other Neanderthalian ideologies.
I believe that men, exactly like women, have to break many stereotypical ideas that are making them become toxic, or insecure, anxious and so on. For males, there is also the pressure of “not communicating”, if you are confronting yourself with a rough patch the people around you will tell you to “man up”… but, excuse me, wtf is that even supposed to fcking mean?
When you look at it this way, makes sene that male suicide rates are way higher than women’s and is the biggest killer of men under 45.

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 2:29 pm
I often need to remember to be kind with myself.
Is so very easy to fall into the self-deprecating jokes, into the “I should be better/different”. And even easier is to project those onto the people around us.

Thankfully, when you remember to be kind with yourself, there a few methods that maybe can help you:
🍭 forgive yourself quickly and often; when you catch yourself in the “blaming game”;
🍭 practice self-compassion: Chris Germer, a clinical psychologist, has witnessed the power of self-compassion through his clients, when they used it as an antidote for the threat-based reactions (fight [self-criticism], flight [abandoning ourselves], freeze [the “why me?” chant).
🍭 give yourself recognitions, even awards for your accomplishments. It could be for a project you’ve been working on, or it could be taking a shower if you’ve been depressed lately. Just make sure you take the time to celebrate the little things you do. They are important.
🍭 connect with yourself: whether you meditate, take a spa day, write yourself a letter, or have a long talk in the mirror, connect with you, check in, are you ok?

🍬 Do you need anything right now?
🍬 How do you already care for yourself?
🍬 If a friend would be in the same situation, would you be kinder?

Chances are the answer’s yes so treat yourself like you’d treat your best friend, I promise is worth it 💖

If you’re lucky enough, you’ll have friends to remind you of that 💖

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 2:30 pm
It do be like that sometimes 😂 if your insecurity also attacks you like that, next time try this:

- don’t act! Breath. Your insecurity is... well.. insecure, so it’s trying to make you take immediate action. You breath for now and stand still.
- because you can feel insecurity, you can also feel confidence, so bring confidence to the table. Instead of focusing on him and how he should change his tone, focus on yourself and realize how you can be a little bit emotional right now.
- if you are truly worried about your partner’s behavior, just talk to them! From a calm emotional state, but still, communicate honestly. Say “I feel insecure right now, it seemed to me like the tone you used was a bit harsh, is everything ok?”

Whatever you do, don’t try to imitate the behavior presented in this video, I promise you is toxic af 😂😂

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Ср Сен 01, 2021 2:31 pm
We all have a light inside, a burning flame that warms our soul, that light is called hope.

Pain is easy, negativity is easy, it comes almost automatically these days, as if that is the standard feeling,

The reality of the fact is that hope is always there, ready to give us a better perspective, ready to play with our imagination and boost our morale, but the trick with it, is that you have to choose it.

Same goes with happiness. You HAVE TO choose it, otherwise it’ll never know you are seeking it. And not only choose it, but play with it, have fun with it; our emotions, much like the ingredients of a recipe, can be combined, transformed and enhanced. They can form another feeling entirely if you know the chemistry of feelings.

So next time you choose hope, add your daily dose of confidence (it doesn’t matter if you don’t have much, add to taste ☺) to it, and put it on the oven of your heart (cheesy vibes coming your way): you’ll end up with a great portion of positivity that you can enjoy on your own or with your loved ones!

Here are a few recipes I tried on my own:

🥘 love + compassion = kindness
🥘 confidence + self-doubt x (lack of expectations+ kindness) = success
🥘 fear + confidence = courage
🥘 kindness + sincerity + happiness = love

I mean... Who doesn’t love to cook like this? 😋

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Чт Сен 09, 2021 4:33 pm
Les presento:
Al putón de mi prima Carlota y su perro salchicha,
A mi chupa de cota de mallas contra la desdicha,
Mariposas que cazan en sueños los niños con granos cuando sueñan que abrazan a Venus de Milo sin manos.
Nunca pude cantar del tirón…
Eterno…Sabina.

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Чт Сен 09, 2021 4:41 pm
A beleza das coisas existe no espírito de quem as contempla.
arrivederci italia ! arrivederci summer ! It’s time to go back⚡
it’s a beautiful day 💛 Day of beauty
Mitad de semana con otra joya de Calamuchita🏞
Hoy te dejamos estos 3 cuadritos del Río del Medio.
Hermoso miércoles comunidad!!!
🏞🌱🌻📷🌼
📍Río del Medio, Las Cañitas,Villa Berna, Valle de Calamuchita
👉🏻Villa Berna está ubicada en el camino que une Villa General Belgrano y La Cumbrecita, a 112 km de la ciudad de Córdoba
👉🏻Se accede por la RP 5 o la RP 109 desde Villa General Belgrano, por dos caminos: uno de ripio de 23 km, pasando por Los Reartes y el otro asfaltado recientemente de 30 km por Atos Pampa.
👉🏻Está a más de 1350 msnm y a pocos kilómetros del cerro Champaquí.
👉🏻Su belleza paisajistica está surcado por los ríos Del Medio y Los Reartes.
Gracias por tus hermosas fotos👏📷🏞
Surprised:Si te gusta compartí, guardá, comentá, etiquetá a tus amigos. Queremos que Córdoba se vea en el mundo
CUIDÁ LAS SIERRAS Y LOS RÍOS, 🌱♻☘🏞💚
Amocba💚
TURISMO EN UN CLICK

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Чт Сен 09, 2021 4:43 pm
Ela é linda né? Comentem aqui o que vocês acham?
It’s all about the light ✨
Fascinante tributo a la primavera que se viene...
Capuchinos a pura flor. Sublime
⛪🌱🌼📷
📍 Iglesia de Los Capuchinos, Buenos Aires y Obispo Oro. Ciudad de Córdoba💚
👉Su nombre completo es Iglesia del Sagrado Corazón de Jesús.
Fue inaugurada en 1933 y terminada en su totalidad en 1980.
👉Pertenece al estilo neogótico.
Diseñada por el arquitecto italiano Agusto Cesar Ferrari, y con reminiscencias de Notre Dame. Llama la atención su estructura de dos torre: la torre trunca que representa la materia que muere; del otro lado la otra torre de 53 metros representa el alma que asciende.
👉Se puede visitar mediante
un itinerario que cuenta historia y te permite unas vistas únicas de la ciudad.
Gracias por tu hermosa foto !!!!👏🏞😍💚📷
Surprised:Si te gusta compartí, guardá, comentá, etiquetá a tus amigos. Queremos que Córdoba se vea en el mundo
CUIDÁ LAS SIERRAS Y LOS RÍOS, 🌱♻☘🏞💚
Amocba💚
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Чт Сен 09, 2021 4:50 pm
Experiments
The coolest thing on earth is experimentation. For example, I will not eat sugar, use a taxi, walk, drink alcohol, watch YouTube or take a shower for 30 days.
After the end of the experiment, you can absolutely understand whether this thing or action is needed in your life, or whether you can get rid of it. 18/365

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Сб Сен 11, 2021 7:53 am
The sad part I was born in"67".. This video was the era that my dad lived thru, the times that my grandparents existed in was an unthinkable to common sense period in history. To see the last white house occupant ignite all hate and make it a standard from his past is an unthinkable act of history repeating itself. His actions we not an accident but HIS LIFE STORY! After God Angeles Gabriel and Michael straightening him out he'll be okay.

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